Last week, I stumbled upon the most delightful place……. Bonjour Bakery & Bistro located at 45 Heritage Way in Kalispell, Montana. Please click on the following link for site specific information about this amazing place: Bonjour Bakery & Bistro
The atmosphere is enchanting. Chandeliers and white twinkle lights. Jazz music and heavenly aromas. Silver mirrors and a pale blue ceiling. All of these touches make those that enter feel like they have stepped into someplace extraordinary. The truth is that you have entered into a magical place.
This is a place that recognizes that the little touches mean as much as large gestures. There are so many exquisite little touches. Orchids by the cash register and cut flowers on every table. The collection of demitasse cups and sliver cake molds. Being cheerfully greeted when you enter. The artful arrangement of cookies on plates and pastries on trays.
More than cookies, cakes and pastries, Bonjour Bakery & Bistro serves coffees in unique flavors like lavender and honey cinnamon. They make soups, sandwiches, bread, quiche, chocolates and, of course, macaroons.
Above is a picture of a chocolate tower, cake, Madeline and macaroon cookie trees.
They also make cupcakes! From left to right there is lemon with lemon curd filling, triple berry, coconut, double chocolate with chocolate filling and vanilla. Having tasted the the lemon cupcake with lemon curd filling, I can honestly say that it was perfect balance of sweetness and tartness. Very flavorful!
When talking to the people working at Bonjour Bakery & Bistro, one of the ladies said that the owner really wanted this to be a unique experience. With that in mind she hires artists for decorating the cakes and cookies. The above photo is one of the artists at work.
So what does a charming bakery have to do with creative living? Besides the fact that the bakery is an amazing creative experience in and of itself, it has to do with one of the most important things a creative person can do….. self care or being good to yourself.
Most creative people are very good at getting their creative work done, sharing their time, energy and talents helping others and taking care of the demands of daily living. Where we really trip ourselves up is when we don’t take care of ourselves or have thoughts of scarcity. The more that you drain yourself to get things done without taking care of yourself, the less you have to give.
Think of your creativity as a well. You put the bucket in and draw out water for a creative project. You draw out water to work at your day job. You draw out water to be a care giver. You draw out water to volunteer. The list of things that deplete the water in your well of creativity is endless. It is your responsibility to do things that fill up your creative well. Going out to a bakery and ordering a coffee and pastry. Purchasing tulips out of season. Eating your favorite childhood cereal for a snack. Going on a vacation. Going for a walk. Or just going outside. Whatever it is that helps fill your well, do it!
Scarcity thinking is thoughts that we don’t deserve to be treated well. That we can’t set healthy boundaries because we don’t deserve to take care of ourselves. Scarcity thinking allows others to take advantage of us when we are needing self care the most. Scarcity thinking drains the well faster than any other areas of our lives because it goes along with thoughts that we are unworthy, undeserving and inadequate. When this is happening, no creative work gets done.
I’m going to tell you right now, if you are reading this blog, you care about your creative work and life…. YOU ARE WORTHY! YOU ARE DESERVING! YOU ARE ADEQUATE!
Take time to treat yourself. Take time to take care of yourself. Take time to visit the Bonjour Bakery & Bistro. Take time to pamper yourself. Take care of you. Your creativity will thank you.